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Sakinah Ismial

Embracing the Moments & Letting Go of Wedding Day Stress

handmade wedding ring holder made out of wood and engraved
With this Ring - Handmade Ring Holder

Hello Beautiful Souls! I've had the honor of capturing countless love stories and witnessing the raw, unfiltered beauty of weddings, but today, I want to talk about embracing imperfection and letting go of wedding day stress. Because let's face it, planning a wedding can be overwhelming, and the pressure to make everything flawless can sometimes overshadow the joy of the moment.


So, dear brides-to-be, I want you to take a deep breath and repeat after me: Imperfection is beautiful. Say it loud, say it proud, and let it sink in.

Your wedding day is not about achieving perfection; it's about celebrating love, connection, and the beautiful messiness of life.


Here are a few nuggets of wisdom I've picked up along the way, both as a photographer and as a fellow woman navigating the journey of life:


1. Release the Pressure: It's okay to let go of the pressure to make everything perfect. Embrace the imperfections, the unexpected moments, and the little hiccups along the way. They're all part of your unique love story.


young African American bride smiling and about to throw her bouquet at the wedding reception
The Throwing of the Bouquet

2. Embrace Spontaneity: Some of the most memorable moments happen when you least expect them. So, be open to spontaneity, go with the flow, and allow yourself to be fully present in each moment.


3. Focus on What Truly Matters: At the end of the day, your wedding day is about celebrating your love and commitment to each other. So, instead of getting caught up in the details, focus on the love that brought you together and the journey that lies ahead.


African American bride and groom kissing at sunset in front of a lake
You May Kiss the Bride

4. Lean on Your Tribe: Surround yourself with a supportive tribe of family and friends who will lift you up, cheer you on, and remind you of the beauty within imperfection.


bride with her bridesmaid and flower girls in robes before the wedding
The Bride's Side

5. Find Joy in the Journey: Remember to find joy in the journey, both the highs and the lows. Your wedding day is just one chapter in your love story, and the real adventure begins once the vows are exchanged.


So, my dear brides-to-be, as you embark on this beautiful journey of love and commitment, I encourage you to embrace imperfection, let go of wedding day stress, and savor every precious moment. Because in the end, every moment can make the most beautiful memories.


African American bride and groom with their baby boy taking a candid picture together as a family
...I Like This Little Life...


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